When I first got into Recovery I heard bottoms were different for everyone. It was like an elevator you could get off on any floor. There isn't a measuring gauge for someone’s hole in the Soul, it is the disconnection from the Divine. The most cunning and baffling thing about addiction is how thoroughly it can convince you that there isn't a problem. That is the role the ego plays. This is where Denial steps in. If we step in trying to rescue an individual before they are ready this may be considered enabling. All people have free will and if I interfere in this I could be blocking off the Sunlight of the Spirit from entering into their lives. In this they may not get the help they need. We can never tell what someone's rock bottom is. If we interfere we can be pulled into their world instead of actually helping them get out. Hold the space of sending Love with prayers such as for their healing!
Surrounding you with Divine Love,